Should a woman with a child psychotype have children, if she has no desire to have them? Childfree movement or childbearing. A parent psychotype and a child psychotype.
Should a woman have children, if she has no desire to have them?
Should a woman with a child psychotype have children, if she has no desire to have them? How can one tell if it’s just egoism or if this type of life experience is simply unnecessary?
The popular modern Childfree movement, which, according to certain ecological, political, or ideological reasons, rejects or doesn’t insist on childbearing as a requirement for every woman. We won’t be discussing the reasons for this modern ideological trend. They are not particularly interesting and, overall, they have been very often discussed back and forth and from all different angles.
Let’s talk about you, what does that mean for you in particular? You are asking the correct question: is it just me being egoistic or is this a peculiarity of my nature? The thing is, that egoism is also a peculiarity of one’s nature, in a way. Egoism is something that accentuates, something that puts an internal emphasis on things – on what is important and what is not. What is more important, myself or the world? Or does the world come first, and then, me? A person with a child psychotype will undoubtedly choose the first option. I come first, then, the rest of the world. And so, in that sense, for a person with a child psychotype, children would never be a priority. If, due to certain social or psychological, family or moral reasons a woman with a child psychotype is forced to put her own children first, she will start to destroy herself, she will slowly kill herself from the inside. For that reason, in this case, egoism is not any kind of stigma that you need to rid yourself of. It is rather a personality trait that defines a woman as a woman with a child psychotype. People with the child psychotype are all egoistic, that is their inherent quality. Whether it is good or bad, that’s in the eye of the beholder.
Whether such experience is important to you, ask yourself the following questions. The lack of desire to have children. Why? Dissect this down to the microns. Meaning, every time ask yourself: Why is that? When you find an answer to your question, ask yourself again: Why? Why do I have no desire? Because of this and that. And why is this and that? And so on. This is quite a universal hack that works great for people with the child psychotype.
People with the parent psychotype must ask themselves a question “What for?” These are two different approaches. Because a child psychotype prioritizes its own experience. This state of the psyche was chosen by your I Am, your soul did the choosing. Because your inner personal technical task for this incarnation was the deciding factor, such as, that it can be done much more effectively, easily, and more interestingly with this particular psychotype.
If, in the end, you ask yourself ‘why’ you come to the answer that you simply don’t want to breed competitors for yourself or, because you don’t want to spend the time on mothering due to some other interests – that is not a reason to consider yourself a bad person, that isn’t a reason not to love or respect yourself, quite the contrary.
The more honest you are with yourself when answering this question, the easier it will be to rid yourself of the burden that you don’t actually need. You are not obligated to do something you don’t want to.
Someone of a parent psycho type will answer based on the question ‘what for’. And the answer will demonstrate the common benefit rather than personal desires. Such as ‘to continue the lineage’, ‘to have a successor’, and so on and so forth. Meaning that her outlook will be large-scale. A person with a child psychotype should not have a large-scale outlook.
Therefore, your question demonstrates that you are worried that it is your flaw. But no, it isn’t that at all. No desire is a flaw, even if it goes against a tradition. A person with a child psychotype should listen to herself, before anything else, and never go against her inner notions, or everyone will suffer. You, and your unborn, or, under pressure born child. No one will be happy.
Additional Information:
- Ad Libitum Department – Adequate Energy Exchange
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- Forum “MAGIC UNITED”
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- Ad Libitum Department. Adequate Energy Exchange. Excerpt from lecture
- Personal self-development vs. magical growth
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