How not to pass on one’s algorithm of failure to the children?

Parents live on in their offspring. How not to pass on to children the algorithm of succession that goes from generation to generation? Algorithms of success and failure.

How to avoid passin on the algorithms of one’s own failure to your children?

“How not to become a model for your daughter so that she gains her own experience?”

In order not to repeat the algorithm that your mum pulled on your consciousness, on your life, you have to understand what that algorithm is. The thing is that this is a completely unconscious human action, which unfortunately sits in the subcortex, and this algorithm is shoved in there by the egregorial system.

Man does not have a very large amount of time to live. As a rule, in the first half of life, a person uses its time freely, without thinking. He feeds various egregorial systems, in the best case, plays with various ideas – gains experience. But after some time this very algorithm switches on and says: “Now we are going to lose”. And how can one avoid losing (in an egregorial way)?

It is necessary for your algorithms of victory to be voluntarily taken by an additional number of people and for them to invest their time in their realisation, via the bond of trust. People start working these algorithms out with their own lives. Thus, they are added to the beingness of the egregore. Because it is important for the egregore that its informational packages of good, the algorithms of good, would not only be accepted, but also fulfil the feature of continuity.

Then from being a spontaneous egregore it kind of starts to become a professional one, because the algorithm of succession starts to function there, i.e. of transmission from generation to generation. Thus, parents prove to the Egregore through this algorithm that “I am not a useless creature. The algorithm has passed on, which means that it is like I am not dying, but continue through this algorithm to live on in my descendants.”

There is a popular phrase: “Parents live in their children (offspring)”. Think about the meaning of this phrase. Their own life was not enough for them, so now they need to suckle on someone else’s life? It turns out that parents really live on in many children. They themselves have run out of youth, but they use their children’s youth, virtually, of course, but there is a certain mystical connection here. Such energy-informational vampirism. “You live by my ideas now,” says the parent. But they are not really the mothers, but the system, which gave these ideas to her, and that she in her turn might have inherited them from her parents, and those from theirs… A long succession that turns out to be almost religious.

By an effort of your will, you can stop all this, realising what it can lead to. In a few years your daughter will open the seminar “Goals and Values” and start to fill in the same table, looking at you with suspicion, and will say: “Mum, I have seen a thing here, do you want to explain to me how this could happen?”.

First explain this to yourself and before handing out an algorithm for achieving results to your daughter, ask her to think of how she would do it if she, for example, were Cinderella or Peter Pan, let her try these roles on. Then let her make a conclusion on which algorithm she likes best and let her try to prove its functioning. In this way she will begin to parse multiple options, cultivate critical thinking and learn to laugh at herself.

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